The past decade has been a whirlwind of life-changing milestones—getting married, buying a home, welcoming both a fur baby and a human baby, advancing in my career, and learning to thrive in a foreign land. Each step has been a testament to growth, resilience, and adaptation.
Now, in my 40s, life presents a new set of challenges—ones that call for balance and wisdom. I find myself juggling the delicate act of nurturing relationships with family and friends, staying relevant and effective in my role, and navigating the ever-evolving demands of financial stability.
Amidst the uncertainties of a world shaken by economic shifts, political turmoil, environmental crises, and social changes, I can’t deny the creeping anxieties that keep me up at night. I worry about my husband’s health and work, my daughter’s growth and future, my job stability, my family back in the Philippines, and the strength of my friendships. It’s overwhelming at times, and I realize that if I don’t prioritize my well-being, the weight of it all could consume me—and that would ripple through everyone I love and care for.
This is why I’m choosing to take charge, to be intentional about how I spend my time and energy. It’s time to focus on what truly matters and make every effort count. Here’s where I’ll direct my energy:
- Running a smooth household: Planning meal rotations, keeping up with routines, and ensuring our home remains a sanctuary of peace and stability.
- Prioritizing impactful work: Channeling my focus on what drives the most value and delegating tasks that don’t require my direct attention.
- Sharpening my skills: Investing in my personal and professional growth to remain adaptable and marketable in an ever-changing world.
Life may be full of uncertainties, but with clarity and purpose, I’m determined to navigate the challenges ahead with strength and grace. This is my time to be proactive, deliberate, and to lead my life—and my family—with intention.
Tech, Tot, & Trowel 
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